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Pamela Stephenson Connolly

Pamela Stephenson Connolly is patron of COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists) corst.org.uk

April 2025

  • A man in a white T-shirt looks troubled as he reclines on a sofa with arms behind his head

    Sexual healing
    Should I stay with my partner – despite the dull, dispassionate sex?

    I don’t need to swing from the rafters, but I do need something more than moderately paced sex in the missionary position ...
  • Two women, one stroking a dog

    Sexual healing
    My wife and I are suffering ‘lesbian bed death’. Is there any way back?

    It’s 13 years since we had sex. My libido has come roaring back – but she’s not interested
  • An image of a woman texting  with a smile on her face

    Sexual healing
    Sexting an old friend was exciting – but now I can’t face sleeping with my husband

    The virtual sex life I enjoyed with someone else only made me realise what was missing at home. How can I make my marriage work again?

March 2025

  • The back of a man in a shadowy image with his head in his hands

    Sexual healing
    My partner doesn’t know I take Viagra – and I worry that one day it won’t work

  • Two women sit on a bench, one curled up facing away from the other, who sits with the legs forwards, hands clasped

    Sexual healing
    My wife is my best friend. How do I tell her I want an open marriage?

  • Middle aged couple with large dog between them

    Sexual healing
    My boyfriend wants us to move in together – but I need my independence and his dog won’t let us have sex

  • A man sits relaxing while a woman looks despairingly at a laundry-basket full of clothes.

    Sexual healing
    I no longer have any sexual desire – and now my husband is talking about a threesome

February 2025

  • Illustration of a middle-aged couple in bed, facing opposite directions

    Sexual healing
    My wife and I haven’t had sex for three years – but I still have a healthy libido

  • A woman places a pillow over head in bed.

    Sexual healing
    I muffle my cries of passion – but the noise is upsetting my partner’s teenager

  • A forlorn man in the bedroom with his wife and dog.

    Sexual healing
    Our four dogs sleep on the bed – so I haven’t had sex with my wife in 10 years

  • Composite illustration of a woman lying in bed

    Sexual healing
    My boyfriend knows I don’t orgasm – but not that I feel no pleasure in sex at all

January 2025

  • A woman lying in bed with a man next to her sitting up, looking upset

    Sexual healing
    My partner reaches orgasm long before I do – then she loses all interest

    It’s been like this for most of our 10 years together. I’m getting a little frustrated
  • A man lounging on the bed with the background. Woman in foreground sitting with head in hands looking anxious

    Sexual healing
    I love my husband – but his yellow teeth and back hair give me the ick

    I don’t want to upset him, as he’s extremely proud and sensitive. But I am now having to grin and bear every sexual encounter we have
  • Two women holding each other

    Sexual healing
    My lover and I can’t stop having sex – and it’s disrupting our working lives

    We have an insatiable desire for each other. But it’s stopping us developing the less sexual sides of our relationship

December 2024

  • Woman lying back in bed looking happy while a man leaves the room

    Sexual healing
    I’m having the best sex of my life – but I can’t climax until my lover leaves the room

  • A picture of a couple in bed.

    Sexual healing
    I wake up aroused – but can’t maintain it to make love to my wife

November 2024

  • Woman looks sad while embracing man.

    Sexual healing
    Sex with my partner was great – until I stopped feeling anything during penetration

  • Illustration of a man and woman in bed together, divided by a red line

    Sexual healing
    My boyfriend finds menstruation unappealing – and I feel rejected every month

  • Composite illustration of a woman and fireworks

    Sexual healing
    Why can I only ever enjoy sex with a partner when we’re in the ‘honeymoon stage’?

  • A concerned-looking woman rests her arm on a man's shoulder, as he looks into the distance.

    Sexual healing
    I haven’t had sex with my husband for three years – and I’m ready to look elsewhere

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