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Living a good life in a complex world

Well Actually

  • Illustration of two faces with intertwined lines coming out of their mouths.

    How to start
    Ask questions, practice and know when to make an exit: how to start a conversation

  • A composite image showing a person being pushed in a wheelchair and another showing a child going up a flight of stairs

    I can’t go everywhere my daughter goes – and it’s heartbreaking

    For disabled parents, the built environment can be inaccessible – but we are showing that there are countless ways to have bodies and minds
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    Why am I like this?
    I’m disagreeable – and it’s backed by science. Can I change my personality?

    I scored low for agreeableness in a personality test for the ‘big five’ traits – does this mean I’m doomed to be disagreeable? I looked into how I can change who I am
  • a couple on a couch splitting in half

    Would a couples therapist ever tell you to break up?

  • illustration of a woman embracing an older woman

    Halfway there: a column about midlife
    I always felt torn growing up between two countries. At 47, I finally feel at peace

  • side by side images of part of a woman's face and a close-up of vaccine documentation

    Measles
    I was sufficiently vaccinated against measles in childhood – or so I thought

  • A slab of beef fat on a bed of green herbs

    Is beef tallow really safe for your health and skin? We asked the experts

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Columns

  • An illustration showing a pixelated human-like figure on a digital watch slowly running into the world outside of the screen.

    How to start
    ‘Listen to your body’: how to start running

  • an illustration of a cake with a bride and groom and a hand with a brush

    Ask Ugly
    I don’t wear makeup but my wedding is coming up – can I go bare-faced?

  • An illustration of an armchair with an orca book resting on the arm casting an orca whale-shaped shadow as an orca whale jumps in the background

    Halfway there: a column about midlife
    ‘Finding time for pleasure’: what orcas taught me about sex in midlife

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    Why am I like this?
    I want to host more parties, but I’m worried nobody will come

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Health & wellbeing

  • Young woman sleeping peacefully

    Cinderella partying: why young women no longer dance until dawn

  • Adrian Chiles

    I thought seasonal affective disorder was a myth. Then I saw the joy that spring can bring

    Adrian Chiles
    • Arwa Mahdawi

      You too can have a body like Donald Trump’s. Here’s how

      Arwa Mahdawi
    • Kimberly Campanello pictured in Brussels

      A moment that changed me: I was diagnosed with Parkinson’s at 41 – and had to find a new look

    • An adult couple and their sons enjoying a day outdoors in a public park

      The best day ever: have scientists found the secret of happiness?

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Relationships

  • Did you confess your feelings for your best friend after watching When Harry Met Sally?

    Tell us: have you been inspired to declare your love inspired by a piece of art?

  • A man in a white T-shirt looks troubled as he reclines on a sofa with arms behind his head

    Should I stay with my partner – despite the dull, dispassionate sex?

  • Eoin O’Dwyer (right) and Mitch (left) at their wedding at Cashel Palace Hotel, Ireland

    The moment I knew: he bared his soul in a performance and I fell for his sensitive side

  • ‘Some of us fall into wild, ecstatic infatuations that feel like a different operational mode for the brain’: Tom Bellamy.

    What happens when love tips over into the infatuated state of ‘limerence’?

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The toolkit

  • ‘People in their 70s often say that they don’t feel old, and the reason for it is that they don’t meet the definition of old we often use.’

    Aging well
    How do I stay healthy in my 70s?

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    How to start
    ‘The only thing you need is your own mind’: how to start meditating

  • a person smokes cannabis

    California sober
    What does it mean and is it good for you?

  • Colourful flat lay view of different types of sliced fruits and vegetables on a pink background.

    The 30-plant challenge
    Experts say we need to eat 30 plants a week. This is how I fared

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Reclaim your brain

Food

  • Alissa Timoshkina's giant cabbage, pea and spring onion latka.

    Giant fritters and roast root veg with whipped feta: Alissa Timoshkina’s recipes for an eastern European Easter feast

  • Felicity Cloake's devilled eggs

    How to make devilled eggs – recipe

  • Helen Goh's apple and rhubarb crumb bars.

    Chocolate pudding and apple bars: Helen Goh’s recipes for Easter desserts

  • Pot-roast shoulder of lamb with endives Simon Hopkinson's Easter recipes Observer Food Monthly OFM Food and prop styling: Polly Webb-Wilson

    Dear chefs: what are the perfect sides for Easter lamb?

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    Crossword blog
    The Guardian’s April fool crossword explained – plus the other papers’ fooling

  • Cryptic crosswords
    Cryptic crossword No 29,671

    • Quick crosswords
      Quick crossword No 17,144

    • Sudoku
      Sudoku 6,864 hard

    • Prize crosswords
      Prize crossword No 29,667

    • Killer sudoku
      Observer killer sudoku

    • Thomas Eaton
      The world’s largest comic convention is held in which city? The Saturday quiz

    • Alex Bellos's Monday puzzle
      Did you solve it? That’s numberwang!

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